By remaining open to people you always have the opportunity to approach every meeting afresh - Illusory Advice

You cannot give up on someone because you find them difficult to be with, and you cannot condemn them to the confinement of a pigeon-hole you have fabricated for them. By remaining open to people you always have the opportunity to approach every meeting afresh and to be continually surprised and delighted. You have now discovered this for yourself experientially and will always have this understanding to draw on when you meet other people you find difficult to get along with. The more you practise, the easier it will become. The more you practise shi-nè, the more space there is to allow such discoveries to arise, and to remember helpful experiences.

page 81, Illusory Advice, Ngakma Nor’dzin & Ngakpa ’ö-Dzin, Aro Books Worldwide, 2016, ISBN: 978-1-898185-37-6